Ladies Be Serious

As a female I feel it is my duty to keep it real with the other females whose mentallity isnt on point. To the females who constant rave and chat about "My man got a car, my man got a job, my man got madd money, my man stay fresh" how does that make you look good. Obviously he's the one whose benefiting since he's living good. Ladies be serious and stop, cause dudes r just saying "My gril look good, my girls body fly, my girl sex is great, my girls toes is right [lol]. Dudes dont really look at girls for material things, but why do we [including myself] look at guys for they're material worth. If you strip down alot of these guys and just have plain ol them, they're not cute or fortunate enuff to have you. Change the convo ladies, i wanna hear "My man's genuine, my man respects me, my man look out for me, my mans my hero, my man is a provider, my man is my partner in life" this way we can hear the fellas say "My girl loves me, my girl makes me feel needed, my girl makes me feel strong, my girl is intelligent, my girl is a true women."



Never accept love if you cant give yourself in return. Never start a relationship you know you'll want to end eventually. Don't go for looks, it can deceive; Dont go for wealth - even that fades away.


[old blog from my myspace]

My Negatives

I act bitchy when im really kinda soft. I dont give guys a second chance but deep inside i really do wanna give em about 300 more. I dont trust people for the simple fact Im scared that Im get hurt again. Im loud and annyoing cause deep inside im shy and quiet and need a voice. I am coldhearted only cause I dont allow anyone near it. I act like I dont give to shits about situations, people or things but truth be told when i lay down those are the things keeping me up at night. I may seem conceited or stuck up in my pics but Im just a regualr chick with high standards and a foolish personality. Dea is Desselyn and Desselyn isnt always peerfect, but neither is anyone who works this earth surface.


[old blog from my myspace]

The Problem Is

"the problem is, you dudes treat the one that you loving with the same respect that you treat the one that you humping"



Random Thoughts [negative, so dont be offended].

"No guy can be trusted, only dealt with" is something my good ol' dr.phil friend told me.

The way I see a man is like this. If he was rich and could buy me the world but fucked every chick on in the world, i wouldnt be happy, i can have everything i want, but it wouldn't make me feel better, I rather he trick them hoes and share himself only with me and i pay for my own, he could buy each one a house and I wouldnt care, but it'll kill me that something someone so special to me is being spilt amongst other chicks. What vaule do I have if what you giving me everyone gets?

Dudes can have a stock loads of chicks, whether they fuck em or they're a friend, but if push come to shove 98% of those chicks wont have your back for shit, they wouldnt even give a shit.

Girls need to face THIS truth, "no girl wants to hear the truth", they want to be lied to. No chick wants to hear "babe im chilling with this chick" and etc.

Its all fun and games until someone does to you what you did to them

Guys should know there is a difference in being honest and being real. Being real is knowing fucking the next chick is wrong and understanding the risk and chances, being honest admiting you fucked the chick. Majority of niggaz aint real, cause when they do it they dont care, its only about they nut and how they feel, fuck how the so called main chick feels.

Ladies, niggaz are going to do them regardless of how a bitch feel.

Guys need to understand, theres a difference between being number one and being the only one. Fellas need to know even if they chick isnt the only one, it is your duty to at least make her feel like she is the only one, if she is your number one she is suppose to have the knowledge that "im number one, cuz im the only one".

What you dont do for her, she'll find someone who will...QUICK!

"I has just fucking them girls, I was gone right back..." -Jay-Z. Tell me, if you have someone that means so much, or holds weight in any positive way, why risk it with someone who isnt even going to be around long?

Niggaz say "dont believe her when she say he just a friend", well ladies dont believe him when he says "she's just a friend"

idk im just venting.

Cute Shirt Kim

I dead ass love this shirt =]

Beyonce Water

this is werid lol

Not Good Enough?

Nicole Scherzinger is the only one who really sings in the Pussyca Dolls, so why does she need them? Well I dont know if you know, but she had her own solo album, and it didnt even make that much compared to the Pussycat Dolls albums. So Im guessing she isnt good enough to stand out on her own and go off single like Beyonce, or Omarion, even like Marques Houstin. Eh whatever, she's hot, and i love this song


I Hate This Part - Pussycat Dolls

Men In Power

I love these men. Before you say "oh gosh not another a groupie," I don't love them because they're rappers, to me it's what they've accomplished and you they are. These are my reasons why.

Fabolous. He's my baby father always and forever (lol). He's from my borough (Brooklyn). But why I love him is this, his swagg is ridiculous and this is what swagg means to me because there are asses out there screwing up they face to that statement, swagg to me is how you carry yourself, how you address yourself and handle yourself, it is the image and vibe you portray for others to view and interpret. Ok? He walks around with such confidence as if making the statement that no one is better than him, but yet he remains humble and you never really hear anything negative about him or what he is doing. He is a great lyricist, his punch lines are so clever so slick, verses by most artist could are mini stories, but he has the talent of shoving a story in a bar (a bar is a unit of measure (time keepin). which is every 4th beat). Every time i listen to his songs I find myself randomly laughing at his wittyness. That's his talent and he has perfected it. He created his own clothing line that is so official, and even though its mainly a mens line, girls even buy.

T.I. He's from Atlanta, and more than crunk stripper pussy popping music artist. Out of the south I respect T.I., Lil Wayne, and Ludacris the most for being from the south and not only speaking about frivolous things. When he stepped on the scene and said "I'm the King of the South" many had claimed it, or even laughed at him for saying it, but he IS the king of the south. He has paved his way and stood out more than most would've thought. And once he did show the world that what he said is word, he just got better. His swagg is so crazy as well, he can wear everything and it fits him so perfectly, I love his 3 piece suit game, I think he is the only other artist who gives Diddy a run for his money when it comes to that department. He is well a spoken person, excellent vocabulary and is a church man, because despite what he gets faced with he holds the faith, as he said "wonder how I face years and I'm still chillin, easy, let go and let God deal with it."

Jay-Z Also another Brooklynite, I've been listening and following him since I was young listening to the "Reasonable Doubt" album. He came out on some "I'm from the streets, and it wasnt pretty, but I did what I had to do, this is what I did, and this is how I made it." He has built an entire "dynasty," and I love that he uses that word, because empires crumble and fall, but dynasty [like my money] last [3] lifetimes (hova's words). There has been so many people to this day that states Jay-Z is wack, even artist like Jazzo try to throw him under a bus, but even if you think he's a wack artist, old man, washed up, a lame and liar from the start, he has built his on ladder to the top. He is part of Def Jam, one of the most prestigious labels, he created RockaFella records, signs music artists, has a clothing line, owns part of a basketball team, and has built up a world wide buzz. He has more than earned everything he has today, and I think people should hop off his shaft, hate him I don't care, but you damn sure have to respect him and his grind.

I didn't mention anything about their looks because that's the last thing that matters, Bill Gates isn't attractive but he is a self made man, and that's exactly what I see in these men, self made. When I listen to any of their music, or read about them I feel motivated to do something. I love a man who is so on point that he makes me want to be on my grind. Their swagg portrays this "I can take care of myself, my business and you." They handle their business and career in a top notch no flaws manner, they have a game plan for everything they do, whether its Jay-Z "retiring" at his prime so he can't be labeled as falling off, T.I. who turned profit by basing a album on his mistakes so others can be inspired and grow wisdom, or Fabolous freestyling constantly building up hype to what his next album will produce. So with all this being said, I'm happy to be a groupie.

Motivating Lines

"when you in the lead you dont care who's trailing" - Fabolous "BET Awards Cypher"

"had a vision in my head, all i had to do was get it out" - T.I. "Slide Show"

"this is nothing to me, difficult takes a day impossible takes a week" - Jay-Z "Sierra Leione Remix"

Souljah Boy over Bow Wow

Yeah so I know they're "beef" is said and done with but I was listening to "Turn My Swagg On Remix" with Soulja Boy featuring Lil Wayne, Young Jeezy, And the Fabulous Loso, and as I'm listening i thought to myself, what hot artists wanted to jump on bow wow's songs for a remix? I remember Bow Wow talking some mess about how he doesn't have to work a day in his life, or his kids, and I'm like your such a spoiled LAME. If someone presented me with some lyrics that were written by T.I., a hot beat and told me I'd get paid for it, you damn right I'mma do it, but that's so simple boring and plain, and honestly I think its sad, your idolized and known in the media for someone elses' talent. At the end of the day and the end of Soulja Boy's career he made his way to the top, he made his beats, he wrote his songs, he created a name, put his peoples on and this alone give him the right to pop shit about artist who rent they cars, and considering he did it and has been doing it since he was young Bow Wow isn't even in a category to fuck with Soulja Boy. But hey that's just my random opinion.

Beyonce on Ebony

My dime ass role model got married last year on April 4th, my birthday, and now this year for April she's on the cover of Ebony looking oh so sexy, she looks like she trying to re-live her foxy Cleopatra days from Austin Powers. She has also given a brief interview to the magazine. Here is the highlight of the interview for you.

On who is the real Beyonce:

“I’m a daughter, I’m a friend, I’m a wife, I’m a sister. All those things first. I’m artist. I’m a businesswoman. I’m multifaceted. I’m a lover. I’m inspired by love. I make decisions from the heart.”

On decisions about what projects to do, her priority is not money but personal growth:

“I turn down million dollar offers all the time because it’s something that does not feel true for what I’m trying to say. I have to be passionate about it. Love inspires and growth inspires me…If it is not going to be iconic, something I can love 10 years from now, I’ve learned I should not waste my time with it.”

On Her and Jay-Z business dealings:

“He was very successful before I met him and I was very successful before I met him. So we have so much respect for each other, and respect for each other artistically. We are very close friends, and I believe he is the ultimate artist and he has the same feelings for me.”

On being asked to describe herself as a wife:

“I don’t know how to talk about it because I don’t like to talk about it. But I have a great example of a great wife, and that’s my mother. And I have great friends around me that have been married, so I’m lucky to have really good examples. And a great husband.”

On how Messy she can get at times:

“I’m a little messy. Oh, yeah. Whenever I’m out in public, I have to be put together. When I get home, I rebel against it and I don’t want to take care of anything. I drop it. I’m relaxed. I don’t have any shoes on. No makeup. My purse is in the kitchen. I think that is most difficult thing for him. He’s very, very organized. I’m extremely organized when I’m working, and I work so much that when I get home I don’t want to think about anything.”

On Retiring:

“I’ve worked so hard on my craft, and I will never stop. I will never retire. I love it way too much.”

Graphics [Keri Hilson]

I created a new myspace layout using photos of the lovely keri hilson from complex magazine. Im in love with leopard print and have been oding on the layouts i used it on so this will be the last time i use my favorite animal print. to see this layout in action or more of my past work, go to myspace.com/donlybkgoddess

Dea of Bk

My name is none of your business but everyone calls me Dea. Im a Brooklyn girl trapped in the Bronx now, but i love both boroughs. I do graphics and photography, love fashion and food, and i'm always interested in random things. I'm a college student at city college and I fence. I'm very blunt and rude but in in a sweet way so i get away with alot. Im pretty hard to forget, I may be sort of quiet at times but i always leave a mark. I'm also the asshole who does majority of the dumb things she thinks off. I am VERY optimistic, always positive and thinking of more possiblites. I am very dedicated to visual art and things that catch attention. I will have a Graphic/Photography company, or a Tattoo Parlor and a clothing line, I want alot so i have to do more, and i guarntee you will see my creations worldwide one day. Aight I'm done babbling, lata.